SOME OF THE MANY REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT

   The issue of men going out of their matrimonial homes to do things against the vows and oaths they took at the church and  registry respectively is alarming these days and some people even go as far as patting such men on the backs and advice them to ride on leaving the wife and children of these men in mess.
   Well,from my own point of view,I'll say the biggest problem I've noticed most men have is that they are never contended with what they have no matter how beautiful and good what they have at home(wife) is,they will still go out for other women/ladies and they don't have discipline cos staying faithful requires a lotta discipline.

   The second problem is friends(evil companion corrupts good manners). Friends men mingle with these days is a major cause of their failed homes.

   Most men cheat or go after other ladies because their wives have turned them to babies at home(always dictating for her husband) at least let him make a decision for once and help him make it stand in the home. Remember, the man is the head of the home *note this ladies/women in the house*

  The wife's fashion sense is another factor that drive most men out of their homes to look for beautiful looking ladies who take good care of their bodies and pay attention to their looks. Some women loose their focus on their fashion life believing after all I'm married,who is looking at me or who am I looking good for? I don't have time jo. And this makes some men forget that they even have wives at home because they are not attractive.
Advice for women out there>>>Always look good(not necessary u look like a drag queen) but u know ur husband's taste, look sweet, cut down unnecessary fat where and when necessary. Wear a different look once in a while by looking smoking hawt.

   Nagging women also pursue their husbands out of their homes. Little nagging is healthy which should happen occasionally when necessary but shouldn't be an habit. "Patience is a priceless virtue" most women are not patient enough with their husbands and frequent nagging drives men nuts.

   Food! Yeah food! It is that important. My friend Tunde used to say something. He'll say "The easiest route to a man's heart,is through his belly"...lol. That's a funny one,tho but its the truth. Most men find it frustrating when they get home and they don't get food to eat on time. Not as a result of their inability to provide but for the fact that their wives are either corporate firm workers or are just lazy that they didn't prepare the food early enough.

   Then the area of love making is another major factor. Lovemaking should be fun and not a routine or norm, it should be regular and adventurous and shouldn't be the boring bed or bedroom thing. C'mon! Is the bedroom the only place in the house? What happened to the kitchen,bathroom, sittingroom and even the backyard? lol. Most women don't take the bed so important thereby,making their husbands get bored and they go out of the home to look for more exciting sexual partners. Not too good,tho

  Men of nowadays don't take their altars serious. "A home where God is not reigning,the devil is there seated comfortably to ruin". They don't do much of praying,they feel the woman is the one that should do the whole praying while they are working. No! It is an agreement;the man should join the woman in prayers to keep the family together and to keep the devil away.

   Lastly,some men are so childish and temperamental that at the slightest quarrels,they start calling family members and friends and u know we have people with different opinions who also apply different approaches to different things. The man might all of a sudden start taking to their advises and most likely might be the wrong advises which will eventually result to them cheating on their wives and ruin their homes. In other words,men should be understanding and patient enough to solve their family matters behind closed doors without involving a third party.

*sighs* I'm tired already sef. Men and their wahala! lol. Well,from my inference of what I've read and things I've seen go wrong with many families, these are some of the many factors I've deduced from  the reasons why men cheat on their wives.